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Hey there. I thought I would give you some advice as to what you should do. I think maybe you should tell him. If your really good friends with him friends with him like me and you are. I think he will understand. But if you know that this will interfere with his relationship and that his girlfriend will find out and get upset than maybe it's best that you not tell him. Or if you tell him ask him not to tell anyone else about it. You don't have to but wouldn't you like to know if he has any feelings for you? For all you know he likes you a lot but is too scared of what you might say if he tells you so he's dating another girl instead. Just a though. I don't think telling him would ruin your friendship. I use to like on of my best friends at school to last year and I came out and told her one day. She was shocked at first but she told me she only loved me as a friend. So nothing ever happened between us and we stayed friends (for only a few months though because we got into an argument about something not related to this). But like you said, even if he doesn't feel the same way about you you guys can always just be friends. And besides, for all you know if he ever breaks up with his girlfriend you might get to be with him. So don't let it ruin your friendship with him either. If you tell him and he says that he doesn't feel the same way about you it's okay. You just have to forget about being with him for the time because maybe one day he will feel the same way about you as you feel about him. You never know.