Hey~
Quite a bit has happened lately~ Foolish foolish business.
I am often vague~ for a reason. Don't like to be too direct...because that's mean or...too confident. And i often say things out of order ;p
Friendship and family relationships have but stirring up my mind lately~
Yes "friends" are the best~ They are there for you when you have problems etc. well that's what they're known for, someone that's always there for you and vice versa. But~ lately i just have doubts. Honestly~ i don't tell my friends things, when or if i do, i end up telling things halfway, or just begin, like a topic sentence. There are friends i truly trust, i do tell them what i can. But truth is, for any friendship, no one wants to deal with the drama. They can say, "we're friends always and forever. I'm always here for you." etc. Yeah sure that's true, but it only lasts when things go well for both of them. When one side is screwed up, they'll be there sure. But only for a moment when they are hurt with you. After they have moved on from your problems they probably feel that they went through and dealed with alot. And that is probably so.
I may be foolish or take things too far~ but to tell someone "you should move on" is not a good advice. The true meaning of that is they don't have anything to say for you or they don't want to deal with it.
so called BFF's are only friends that smile and laugh together. If a friend can smile and laugh while their so called BFF is in "pain" or not as happy, then that's not a real close friendship. So i'd rather not fake things.
;] By the way, this is my view of friendship~ and again~ it lags on details.
All in all, i don't like it when friends simply act like things are ok, both ways. When a friend hides something from the other, or when a friend knows the other has probs. but acts like the person is ok. Also, i don't like it when people say common phrases that suppose to take form of it's real definition, (ex. "always there for you." wink . becareful with what you say. Don't try to handle things when you know you won't and can't. It gives the others hope and a wishful thinking.
Yes i expect alot from a friendship. Because friends are "friends"
And again...i jump from one thing to another...so it may leave questions causing a misunderstanding...yup yup... ^^
